Every day we face so many misunderstandings in life. We misunderstood others without thinking what we are doing is correct or incorrect. We are obsessed with petty things in our life. Sometimes we forget to see what is happening behind the scene. It not like that we do not create misunderstandings, we also do that. We create misunderstandings, by our negative approach towards the incident.

Suppose you gave a call to your friend and you did not get a reply from your friend, what you will think. Be honest with your answer. You will certainly think that he is ignoring you. You will also think that he does not care for you. This is a negative approach.
Did you ever thought once that he might have tried calling you back but could not got you. Did you think that might be your friend is in some trouble or might have left some message for you and you didn’t have it? This is a positive approach. We always think negatively in the absence of facts which is very wrong. The following quote fits with what we are discussing in this article. We must see things from other side. You will be able to resolve your misunderstandings in an easy way.

“Always put yourself in the other’s shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.” Author unknown

There are lots of reasons behind one action. So we must think about all the aspects of each and every action performed by an individual. We should give other a benefit of doubt. Just as we have in cricket. The benefit of doubt is given to the batsman, because he is representing his nation while playing in a team.

Another thing which you must keep in mind is gratitude. Have a gracious attitude because that will change your way look life. Your actions become natural when you a right combination of gratitude and humility. Have you heard about the three magical words “sorry”, “thank you” and “please”? Yes these are called as magical words. They show the gratitude which you have for others. Use these words in your daily life and half of your problems will be eliminated. Always give a smile and appreciate others when they speak to you. Everyday quote to live by is a website full of gratitude quotes.

“Gratitude is the memory of the heart.” -Jean Baptiste Massieu

“I feel a very unusual sensation – if it is not indigestion, I think it must be gratitude.” -Benjamin Disraeli
Both the above quotes are from Everyday quotes to live by show the importance of gratitude in life. Be humble with others and show gratitude whenever it is required. This the way of life by which you can win the love of others. You can make good friends and good relations. If you need the help of others saying a word “please” will be a great help in convincing them to help you out.